Should I still keep fighting for her love, or to let it pass and hope I meet another?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hi I sent a question a couple days ago about my friend flirting with this girl I like, but I have a follow-up question.

I live in Africa, and I'm moving in a couple weeks, and I want to know if I should still pursue this girl, 'cause my friend gets along with her better. The main problem is that even if the two of us did get together, she doesn't have an e-mail address or anything similar to that, so I seldom would be able to contact her.

What I really want to know is that I have all of these odds stacked against me (I'm moving and my friend gets more of her attention), and I need to know I should still keep fighting for her love, or to let it pass and hope I meet another? Advice
It makes sense to let her go.

You have a very difficult path to communicate with her long-distance and she and your friend seem to be attracted to each other.

If you think she is the only girl in the world that will ever satisfy you then you should pursue her, but if you are smart you won't do that.

Good luck! George

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