If he doesn't feel the same way I don't want to feel stupid
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My boyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago..I like someone but i dont know if i should tell them or what. How should i do this? I mean i really like him, and he is a person i enjoy being around. I dont' know if he feels the same way and i dont wanna seem like im desprate, klingy, and if he doesnt feel the same way i dont want to feel stupid. can u help me?
There is nothing desperate, clingy, or stupid in telling a him that you care about him.
He will take it as a compliment and even if he doesn't feel the same right now, after he thinks it over he might change his mind.
My advice is to simply tell that you are "developing feelings" for him and ask him how he feels about you. Tell him you will give him time to think about it and ask him again the next time you see him.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com