I never give up on a good thing, and I don't want to give up on her
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My girlfriend and i have been dating for 15 months. She broke up with me. There are so many reason why i can think of why she did it, but they all don't make sense.
She's very opinionated and she has to have everything her way. When i tell her something truthful, like "your are treated so terribly by your friends and you keep on staying friends with them. You should tell them all to go away cause you don't deserve this" she would get mad and start defending them.
It's been a month and we've been broken up and all her friends and family don't want us together, but my heart is telling me that she'll come back. I never give up on a good thing, and i don't want to give up on her. I want her back and i'm gonna keep on trying til i get her back. My friends say to keep trying and one day you'll get her back.
She has a lot of personal problems due to her living with a mom who drank and did drugs til my girlfriend at the time turned 14 years old, 3 years ago. Her dad is a biggit. Her friends are selfish. She's been going through hell all her life and when i came into her life i made hell become heaven. I became her world.
She threw her world away and broke up with me, i believe she's been brainwashed by her friends and family and she tried to find any way to break up with me. I really want her back.
My question is what do you think i should do? i read your advice posted and it's not enough. What should i do?
There is no magic way to get her back.
You have to work at it slowly and surely.
Please take my advice and give her a call once a week as I suggested in my response to your last inquiry. This gives you, in my opinion, the best way to find your way back into her life.
Forget about her mother, father, friends and how opinionated and stupid you think she is. Tell her you love her and leave it at that.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com