I've been crying since I broke up with him (it's been a week)
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I went out with this guy for a month and broke up with him once after a week, and then we got back together but i broke up with him again, and hes so mad he wont even be friends with me. The thing im mad about is i still really like him and ive been crying since i broke up with him (its been a week) I told him i broke up with him because i never see him on the weekends (we used to see each other every weekend but im grounded from seeing onlii him on the weekends) what i want to kno is why i shy away from relationships just when there perfect, (i do this everytime) i also would like to kno what i can do so we can be friends?
thanx soo much, i really appreciate it
*lost and confused*
I'm sorry you are in this situation.
You probably shy away from perfect relationships because they cause feelings inside of you which you don't feel comfortable with. You will have to look into yourself and figure out what those feelings are.
As far as becoming friends again, try calling him once a week to see how he is doing, to let him know you still care about him, and to maintain contact. Don't talk about your relationship. Be cheerful and keep you call to 15 mins.
I suspect he really wants to be your friend too.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com