we were messing around and he got on top of me

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
One of my friends (who is EXTEREMLY hot and ive had a crush on) was messing around with me last night. hes really mellow and nice and just a really kool guy all together. but last night.... it was like he changed.

we were messing around and he got on top of me. he kised me and felt my breasts saying he wanted me. He wasnt the person i knew. i didnt believe it was him. we nearly had sex and now i dont know how i can look at him without seeing this new person. How long should i wait till i talk to him? can we still be friends? and how do i know if he loves me and it wasnt just lust? i need to know how i cn ask him these things without scaring him off. its not like i can just sit him down and tell him this. it wuld be to awkward. plz help!

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It sounds like lust to me.

Continue being friends with him and see what develops. If he doesn't say he loves you then you'll know it was lust.

Then you can make up your mind if you want to be friends with him still.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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