I want to know if he likes me and do we have a future

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I first met this guy at Hurrican Katrina Benifit concert and he was playing the trumpet..Were both jazz musicians. We were introduced and he invited me to a gig and his rehearsal..But he was still very conserative..I cam to his rehearsal but he didnt even look at me not once.. So i would pass him many times at school and neither of us would speak to one another. he then saw me one day and I was walking pass him and he said to me "hey you dont remeber me Im not your friend any more". We spoke and he was telling me he was leaving for France..so I wanted to tell him I felt then but i left it alone...He then came back and his friend invited me to his gig..I went and sounded happy to hear from me when I called him. he got me in the club he was playing at but didnt hardly speak tome or sit next to me at all the whole night, i then thought since we were aquainted id tell him how I feel..and he told me that he just got out of a relationship...but he likes privacy cause it was alot of people around when we were talking... he then acted more comfortable with me once I told him how I felt. he paid for the cab but it was my friend and his friend on a date. So i told him bye and he called me like 2 in the morn but I was sleep. I then called him back but he never called me back... So i seen him the following week and he came to my show and left me a voice message telling me I did a good job. Everytime I would call him I would want to continue the conversation tha we started so I would know whether or not he liked me......Come to find out his ex girlfriend knows about me and acts very rude towards me.......Me and him talk on the phone.... occasionally...but he's very busy..so i wonder if he dosent call me as often because of that mattter. Out of three months of this situation..we've had three conversations on the phone that were long and interesting...... Im really really interested in him...and Im not going to chase him...but ive never felt this strongly about somebody that I dont even know. Im very mature and I know if he does not know you.he.s not going to approach you. He's a good person aND IM 18 AND HES 23........I want to know if he likes me and do we have a future...what should I dooooooooooo. I really like him....

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It sounds like you are going to have to chase him.

If you want things to progress your way, take the bull by the horns. He is too shy or standoffish to do the chasing himself. He does seems to like you, though, so the chase may not be too long or hard.

The best things in life are worth working for! George

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