I tried to deny everything to my boyfriend but he had proof of what I had done
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been dating my boyfriend for almost two years. About a year ago I met a guy, during this time my boyfriend and I were having relationship problems. My boyfriend had told me that I wasn't sexually attractive to him anymore because I had put on weight, in result we broke up, a month later he apologyzed and we worked it out and we got back together. This new guy and I became really good friends, after a while he started to have feelings for me, and a while later the new guy and I slept together, it was a one-night stand for me, I wanted to prove myself that I was still attractive and get my self esteem up. Anyways, I never told my boyfriend, mainly because this guy didnt mean anything to me at a relationship level. Four months after this happend the new guy started to obssess over me and I told him that nothing will ever happend again and that it was all over. He got very angry with me and he told my boyfriend what happend. I tried to deny everything to my boyfriend but he had proof of what I had done, I denied everything because I was scared and now my boyfriend doesn't want to talk to me, and the other guy still calls me and wants to be with me. This happend a couple of nights ago. I just dont know what to do. I love my boyfriend and I know I made a mistake, and I still want us to be together. Is there anything I can do to fix this?
You don't have much going in your favor.
Your current b/f probably doesn't believe you and you said he isn't talking to you. Whether you tell him the truth or not he could break up with you. You will have to decide whether to tell him or not. It's a coin toss.
As far as the other guy goes, get rid of him quick.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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