I'm 18 and I have a massive crush on this girl, though I dont know her
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Il keep it short. Im 18 and I have a massive crush on this girl, though I dont know her. She knows the way I feel because her mate told her. I think im in love. But a couple of weeks ago her mate told me she had a boyfriend now, (he asked her out), someone who she knows very well. We used to be able to look at each other and make eye contact, now its just me looking at her. I thought I had a chance. My question is, does her getting a boyfriend mean that I have no chance? What I can I do to keep in her thoughts. I only see her 3 times a week at the bus stop, though her mate is easy to talk to about it so I do that on MSN. I wanted to get to know her first but becaus eof my past I find it difficult to go up to a girl, especially 1 that is as pretty as her. Thanks.
You need to get to know her.
My advice is that whenever you see her you look her right in the eyes and say in a clear voice "Hi" plus her name and then give her a big smile.
She will soon start to respond the same way to you and you can ask her how she is doing, etc. Eventually you two will know each other and perhaps be friends.
Until you do this simple thing, it is going to be very hard for you to get a date with her if she drops her boyfriend. Think of this as investing in your future.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com