After a week I asked her in chat if I could whisper her and she said "OK"

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I met a lady online in chat a few months ago. She's alot older then me. She lives in another state. She's retired and I've been on my job for 16 years. One day after calling her she yelled and screamed at me and basically broke it off. I got into chat and she was in and I was pissed at this point. I put in chat that I was a 34 female in Maryland looking for femm. She immediately got into my whisper and said I was really childish letting people know already that we broke up. I said "I can't wait around anymore". Then she stopped talking to me completely. After a week I asked her in chat if I could whisper her and she said "OK". I apologized to her and asked if we could be friends. She said "I don't want no more of this "bs" in chat or on the phone anymore. I said "Ok" can we be friends? She said "NO MORE WHISPER, I DON'T WANT TO TALK ANYMORE". I became furious and I told one of the host what she said about them. The host who knows both of us confronted her and she went off on me in the room calling me a liar and how I basically called her 14 times and she hung up on me. She said "I want you to leave me alone". Since then she has NOT talked to me, she won't email me back and I will not call for fear she'll hang up. I really miss her. I wish she would just email me back or something. I see her in chat talking with other women. A friend of mine in chat said "She's a Player and she does this all the time". Should I continue trying to talk to her or move on? Do you feel she'll ever come around and talk to me? Thanks... Advice
Time to get out that crystal ball! :)

Seriously there is no way either of us can figure out that question. She either will or will not talk to you again...that's about all we can say for sure.

Doesn't sound like you care for very much anyway. Why not move on?

Good luck! George

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