The last year of this relationship, things started to get very strange
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Me and my ex broke up in June 2005 after a 3 year relationship and I desperately want her back
The story is: We met each other about 5 years ago and she fell in love with me while I was struggling to get over someone else, we dated for about a month and I broke it off. She later became on of my best friends, but also reminding me that she loves me and is waiting for me. We got back together after about 7 months and started a serious relationship. During this relationship I was sometimes a bit harsh in my expectations, but also very understanding and compromising, where she was demanding and uncompromising yet extremely loving towards me. I sometimes felt that it's wrong to be in this and sometimes loved it.
We had alot of fights and stuff happened that was stressfull, yet we always got out of it
The last year of this relationship, things started to get very strange, it was like the tables turned, here I am totally in love with her and still wanting to do everything for her and she losing feelings and losing hope in us.
When we broke up I was shattered but we still saw each other and it felt like we were sort of together still, but then she met a new guy about 2 months ago and started seeing him and love spending time with, yet telling me that she absolutely loves me and one day wants to settle down with me, we still kissed but now it's like she has no feelings towards me, but still "Loves me to bits'
I miss her so much and would do anything to get her back, Please help?
Try to figure out where this woman is coming from. What motivates her feelings for you?
Until you can do that you will be in the dark as I am.
You need to talk with her more and more and try to determine how she really feels. She is saying one thing and doing another. That's your best chance of getting her back is to have long, deep, trusting, caring, and honest talks with each other to attempt to find out what will make you both happy.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com