I asked him, in front of his friends, why he broke up with me. Big mistake!
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
ok well me and my ex dated for 4 months i know it doesnt sound like a long time but it was to us and we fell in love with eachother well on our 4 months marking period i talked to him about how he was acting because he started acting weird for a month he stopped calling me and i always called him and when we were around my boy cousins he sort of ignored me and hung out with them and i was upset but i didnt care because he was happy so i talked to him about this and he got upset with me and he was like why are you acting like everythings my fault so anyways the next day at night he broke up with me on the phone he didnt even sound upset and i was depressed and i cried everyday and after we broke up he said we could still be freinds we were until i took a freinds advice and tried talking to him, about why he broke up with me, in front of his freinds. big mistake! he was very mad at me for that because i embarrassed him so i tried several times to talk with him and tell him i was sorry but he doesnt care and he still checks me out and looks at me but if i see him he doesnt look at me and he told my brother that he liked me when he told me he had no feelings for me when we broke up we've been broke up for 3 months and i havent talked to him for thepast month because my friend told me to give him space but me and his mom became best freinds and i still want him back so i need help should i do what people say and stay away from him and his family to give him space so he'll start thinking or should i try something else?
Here's my advice on how to get back together with him.
Call him once a week just to see how he is doing, to let him know you still care about him, and to maintain contact. Don't talk about your relationship. Be cheerful and keep the call to 15 mins.
This will give him some space but also allows for some contact.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com