finally after hoping and praying for him to make a move, he did
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Alright i'm not even sure if my ? is even part of this catogorey but here goes, okay i want to know if i'm a bad for friend for the following reason. i know this guy i've been friends w/ now for about a year. he's one of my best friends little brother, now every body i know finds him highly attractive, including my best friend she had a crush on him as well. well i nearly fell head over heels for the guy. and i already a bf. but when my bf was being a jerk my crush comfort me when no one else would. now i never thought in a million years that he's feelings were mutual. but my best friend knew how much i liked this guy. and finally after hoping and praying for him to make a move, he did we made out for like an hour and did some other things no sex. i told my friend i thought she'd be happy after all she acted like she liked him more as a brother than a bf. she pratically hated me for this. well she forgave me, and i thought she wanted me too go out w/ him and she even said she thought he liked me. but when we did the same thing she called me a slut. and told me our friendship was over. now i love my best friend to death but she told me i should have been a better friend than that. now we are semi friends again but i really don't want to risk losing her. but he keeps flirting w/ me and i can't help my self so sorry about the length :) thanks
There is an old saying "All is fair in love and war."
What that means is when it comes to love, that has to be your first priority. Just because your friend happened to have a crush on him too, so what? What would have happened if she had gotten the boy? You would have been plenty mad too, but hopefully you would also be mature enough to still be her friend.
Maybe that's what your friend is doing... just getting mad at first but then realizing she was trying to do the same thing.
I think things will turn out ok between you and your friend.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com