My friends tell me, that i have to ask her out, then get to know her...

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Hello!I am a confused high school junior, who has an extremely tough time when it comes to relationships. First, I have asked numerous women out, and all i ever get is " I'm gay " or " i just think of us as really good friends". I'm starting to wonder if it's just me. My friends tell me, that i have to ask her out, then get to know her... but this doesnt seem feasible to me. Granted, I do feel as though i am in the wrong generation, but there has to be more like me out there? Do you think you can help? Advice
I disagree with your friends.

My advice is to get to know the girl first as a friend and if you hit things off with her then ask her out.

This way she will grow to know you, trust you, and like you.

Good luck! George

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