Is it worth giving this relationship another go?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Hey there. Me and my ex girlfriend of 3 and a half years split up about 10 weeks ago. We didnt really speak to each other after that, maybe a couple of txt messages. About 6weeks went past and she started emailing me, asking how i was and what i'd been up2. so after a few emails i decided to call her and we was on the fone nearly 3hrs and we had such a great chat and a good laugh. Now we split up bcoz we wanted different things, she wasnt to sure what she wanted anymore, so she broke it off. I was upset but i dealt with it however since that phone call 3wks ago ive been thinking i still want her, i still love her so much. The most frustrating thing for me is we didnt split up on bad terms so we have remained on good terms and good friends, but this last week she hasnt left my mind. is it worth giving this relationship another go?
Thanks for your time
Give her a call every week or so to see how she is doing, to let her know you still care, and to maintain contact. Be upbeat, don't talk about your relationship (unless she does), and keep the call to 15 mins.
This approach has the potential for bringing her back to you since you will be regularly in her mind.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com