I need her in my life playing at least some part but I still want more
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
There's a girl who I've known and been close to for nearly five years now, four of which i've been totally in love with her. we are incredibly close, hold hands, kiss on cheek etc. But I really want more.. I do believe she is "the one". But she has another boyfriend for over a year, and she'd pretty serious, and keeps telling me about him which tears me apart totally. I always wanted more from our relationship, n im totally serious abt her.. i mean marriage n all. but i could and never tell her cause i feel it would ruin our friendship, n i need her in my life playin at least some part. but i still want more. What do i do?
As long as she has a boyfriend, your chances of having a closer relationship with her are not very good.
Keep doing what you have been doing and wait to see what happens with this b/f.
That's the only approach I think is reasonable.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com