I really don't want to lose my best friend but I really like this guy alot
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
alright i have a question, okay i have this guy i like he's a year younger than me and i've liked him for nearly a year now, and i even broke up w/ my bf for him, and i never thought the guy i had a crush on would ever even so much as hold my hand, we have made out and fondled each other, and my friend got extrelmy mad at me because, she liked him, so she finally forgave me and i asked if it was okay if i liked him and if i asked him out, she reassured me a zillon times she didn't like him, but then like a week ago we did about the same thing and she got really p*ssed at me. i want to know if i'm in the wrong. i mean is it wrong to like him. she told me if i was a real friend i would've known that she still liked. and once again she's telling me too go for it but she just gonna stay away from both of us. and i really don't want to lose my best friend but i really like this guy alot. help me plz...thanks
To decide between the new guy and your best friend ask yourself this question: Who do you want to be with a year from now. Your best friend or the new guy.
That is the answer to your question.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com