I am not only in love with two men for 3 or 4 years now but they are in love with me too

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hallo, I'm 22 female. I have a problem hat is not that common it seems. I am not only in love with two men for 3 or 4 years now but they are in love with me too. Both of them want me for themselves. When I'm with one of them I want the other, then I break up and go for the other but then I regret it and get toghether with the first one. And all the times they both take me back. Both of them love me very much and think that I am the woman of his life. They are very differnt - one I've known for almost 10 years and he's been in love with me all the time.The other I know for 4 years and we've had some difficulties but now he doesn't want to share me with anyone, we tried to live together but it was me again who ran away.I realise I have no right to do that but I don't really know what to do anymore. There are too many memories with both of them, too many things connect me to every one of them.I'm tired of going in circles so please give me some toughtful advice for I can't think right any more.

RomanceClass.com Advice
You are 22. You are ready for marriage and children.

Ask yourself which of these two men do you want to be with 10 years from now as your husband and father of your children.

Which one will please your family the most?
Which one will provide the better finances?
Do you like the family of one better than the other?

After you think about this I hope you will have a good idea which one you want. Give him all your attention and break off from the other. You are too old to be in love with two men equally. Make up your mind. Please :)

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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