Okay so its all good, but then I get transfered to another school
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Okay so im almost sure this girl likes me, but then she gives me these signals that i dont know how to interpret. I was standing by myself at school and she comes up to me and introduces herself, so we start hanging out. she spends all her lunches that week with me even though she is very popular and has lots of friends, at this point i start suspecting that maybe she likes me, plus she always leans up on me and asks me to walk her to class. okay so its all good, but then i get transfered to another school, she doesnt take this news well and says she will miss me, we spend a few hours today, and we have our first kiss, i ask her if she would like to hook up cuz I will continue to live in the same nieghborhood. She says yes, but is worried that i will meet other girls. I call her a few times and we meet the next weekend, we got to my place, make out, i get her top off but we didnt have sex. i walk her home. call after awhile to arrange another meeting she says sure maybe saturday or sunday. I call her later and she has a really diffrent tone about her, like she not to intrested. next day she says shes to busy to meet on the weekend. I visit my old school for other reasons and see her there she seems really uncomfortable around me and hardly even talks to me. At this point i decide to make a premptive move and hook up with another girl and dump her, just cuz i dont like being dumped, makes me feel like a loser. she doesnt really take the news so hard. I was just curious where i went wrong or what happened it seems very mysterious to me. your help is appreciated
You didn't do anything wrong and she didn't either.
You were transferred to a new school and that changed everying. A beautiful chance at a romance was turned into a failed effort.
It's too bad that it happened, but life is like that sometimes.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com