There is this girl in my bio class and i really like her
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
there is this girl in my bio class and i really like her. i just cant stop thinkning about her. she is like my best friend ever and we share almost everything together. sometimes she gets really wierd around me tho. like she will say" i hate you, go away, dont talk to me anymore!" but then the next day she tells me im herbest friend and hugs me to death and hangs with me for the day. the other day she told me she wanted to hang out with me really bad so i i invited her to my place. we had a great time. we got kinda of physical, nothing sexual, kinda like 1st base with no kissing. then later, she told me she wanted to break up with her boyfriend, and then did it at my house. she gave me a big hug after. ever sinse that day lots of my friends have asked me how things are going with her (like she is my girlfriend or something) and sometimes ppl ask me if she is my girlfriend. one of her friends (who she tells pretty much everyhting to) told me she likes me and asked if i liked her back. i siad i dont really no. cuz after that day she has been avoiding me and doing that "i hate you thing again". do u think she likes me or is just a really good friend?
She likes you.
That is why she is doing the "I hate you" routing... that is her way of pretending that she doesn't care about you. It isn't a good thing for her to be doing because it confuses you.
Next time she says that you say "I hate you too" in a joking way "but I don't know why!" She will probably break out laughing. After that she will be less likely to use that phrase with you again.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com