Either end things now and throw it in the experience bag, or to give it a few more days
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
Thanks for your opinion George... it's greatly appreciated. I have been giving the relationship, if thats what it can be called, alot of thought as far as deciding one way or the other, to either end things now and throw it in the experience bag, or to give it a few more days, to see is she can keep her promise that she wont ever say that kind of B.S. again, as well as work on her quick temper. The only reason i havent already hit the road, is because only two months ago her ex-husband did a bad thing to her at knife point. So I dont want to sell her short, since she is an emotional wreck. I know i left this part out, but i didnt feel right putting it on here without her permission. But, it's an important piece to the puzzle i would think, and i talked to the crisis counselor thats been seeing her and they told me that its normal for her to feel lots of anger, distrust, yada yada yada. Does this change your opinion in any way, or do you think it was still unacceptable for her to say that crap concerning another guy. I think its still crap myself!
You have nothing much to lose by giving her some more time.
But I still think she is a mean person. Something bad happened to her, but that is no excuse to take it out on you.
Unless you love her and want to see her through this bad part of her life I would recommend moving on. There is no guarantee that her behavior will change.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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