My boyfriend and I broke up after 5 months because he didn't love me enough
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My boyfriend and I broke up after 5 months because he didn't love me enough. (We broke up 3 weeks ago) It hurt a lot because I was just starting to fall in love with him. Later I found out he was in love with someone else. I know that we weren't the most compatable people and this new girl makes him happier, but I can't shake the feeling that I'd do whatever it takes to get him back, even though deep down I know it would be a bad idea. What I miss most is the physical part, just casually touching each other when we're together, and when he sees me he still does this (strokes my arm, etc, he even kissed me on the cheek today). I don't know what to do, I can't deal with him being in love with someone else and I'm so depressed.
Maybe you will need to accept the fact he loves someone else.
You can find another man who will please you as much as he did. There are plenty of men out there who will make you happy.
You suggested that you might have to realize he is gone and learn to deal with it. That is my advice. Don't spend too much time grieving over this loss.
Sorry you are in this situation. George
-- from George
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