Should I tell him how I feel about him now even though we aren't together?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My boyfriend and i were together for 14 months and everything was going great we had a very good relationship. My ex boyfriend is going to college obout 3 hours away from me and he broke up with me because he couldnt handle the distance, after we broke up we wouldnt talk for about a month and a half well just about a month ago he started talking to me again. i am wondering if you think i should talk to him about out past relationship and what we had or do you think that will scare him off? also should i tell him how i feel about him now even though we arent together? please give me helpful advice!! thank you!!
It's almost always best to be honest.
Just don't make it into a drama. Casually tell him you still care for him and miss him. That shouldn't scare him off. Take it slow about bringing up your old relationship. It will come up naturally from time to time maybe even by him.
Hope this helps! George
-- from George
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