How can i get over this SHYNESS i have.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hello..its me again the singer, i need some tips on how to start a conversation with mr.drama guy. I mean, its really hard, i dont know if im just shy, basically i think that I just dont want to look stupid in frony of him, i mean, i dont want to say anything stupid and sometimes, he can be arrogant as well, he kinda ignores people sometimes, hes got the biggest ego...but i still like him
Im scared that he might just ignore me, but my friends say that they think he likes me because he hasnt ignored me yet and that he notices me. How can i get over this SHYNESS i have. I dont know how. :-(
I gave you step by step instructions in my last response to you.
The advice was on how to gradually introduce yourself into his life by saying hi to him everytime you saw him.
Perhaps you are afraid he will start talking to you before you are ready for a conversation. That's possible that he would do that so you need to be prepared with some ready conversation. Write down ideas for words to say to him so you'll be ready.
Everyone is shy at first. Don't think you are the only one. You could even tell him that you are shy and could he help you overcome it. He would probably be delighted to try to help you out and tell you how he used to be shy himself.
The way to stop being shy is to practice, practice, practice! You don't have to practice with him if you don't want to. Start up conversations with any boy that you know. You won't care what he thinks about you and he may be as shy as you are
The basic idea is to be brave and do what you want to with your life. Otherwise you'll be a shy person the rest of your life... ugggh.
Best of luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com