we hung out at a bar.. got drunk and I slept with him!
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Here it goes... I've been in a relationship with the same guy for 2 1/2 yrs, and like most relationships the first year was almost perfect, now I feel like I'm missing out, I just turned 21 and I am not sure if this is the guy I want to marry. but at the same time I can't seem to leave him for some reason!I'm so confused.. But here comes another problem.. I met a really, really hot guy about 5 months ago.. meanwhile me and my bf were taking a "break" the other guy and I started talking, we started hanging out almost every day, we had sex... and I think this is what ruined it.. or he was just using me, but anyway, we stopped talking, and my ex and I got back together... I still feel like I had been cheating tho. About 2 weeks ago.. that guy and I started talking again somehow.. I was stupid enough to think that maybe this time around might be different... we hung out at a bar.. got drunk and I slept with him! I feel so used because after he was being all sweet, I think he was just working me, because now, I have't heard from him at all.. and I am NOT going to call him. Please help, give me some advice ! I need someone elses' opinion.. I know I was stupid for falling.. not only that, but I cheated, and now I feel even more confused about my relationship with guy 1. What should I do.. and what did I do wrong to make this guy just use me basically for one night!
We human beings are hard to figure out some of the time.
I've noticed that women at age 21 often need a break to find out who they are. This is probably what is happening to you.
Maybe it is time for a longer break with guy 1 so that you can get out there and see what you are missing. Or perhaps you feel that you've already had that experience and don't need anymore.
In any case, the decision is your's to take.
I wish you luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com