i'm afraid that he'll decide not to go out again
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hi, I kinda have a situation. I'm 15, started dating my older brother's best friend (who is 18) but i'm not allowed to date. so my mom doesn't know anything about what happened between him and i. we love each other so much, and he broke up with me last week, it hurts so bad. we were together for a month and a day, he said he broke up with me b/c the age gap was getting to him. he's going to be leaving and he thought it would be better this way but we're both miserable. he says he really wants to get back together, but his friends dont like that idea, and either do a few of mine. if we do get back together he feels as though he'll be going against everybody... but it would make him so happy. i don't know what to do. i'm just waiting for his decision but i'm afraid that he'll decide not to go out again. please help me...
If you want to go out with him, tell him so. He might not know how you feel about it.
Two things bother me about this. First is that you are sneaking around the back of your mother which is not a good idea. Second is that if you two have sex then he could go to jail.
Think about these things too before you tell him you want to go out with him.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com