for the longest time i've like this other guy
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
okay to start off this promblem might not be something you can help with but u the only one responding when i write... okay look i have this bf and i do love him, but for the longest time i've like this other guy. Now my bf knows this but he did step away so i could get w/ this other. only promblem is when he is gone and is not my bf anymore i miss and i drive my self insane because he says he doesn't even want to see me as a friend cause he says it will be too painful. and my friends won't help me either. plus i'm not even sure this other guy likes me or not. And me and my bf finally broke it off. but i feel stupid because i went back to him but told i still needed space and time. and i don't want to hurt him anymore but i really like this one guy and i just can't shut off my feelings for him. and i just feel like everything is caving in i really needed some advice, so for it being so long thank you...
You have broken up with your boyfriend, so it is time for you to find out whether the other guy likes you or not.
If he does, then you can explore that relationship to see if it is workable.
My guess is that your boyfriend will still want to be your friend after a little time passes.
So now you have your opportunity. My advice is to take it! -- George
-- from George
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