he's been married 2 times and his 3 children are living with him

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am 21years old,I have a 4yr old daughter. I been talking to a guy that is 30yrs old, he's been married 2 times and his 3 children living with him. I am wondering if being with an older guy would make it hard for us to progress a relationship and would it be right for my dauther to be around them? How could I explain that to her?

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The age difference only matters if it matters to you (or him).

There is nothing particularly wrong with a 30 yr old going out with a 21 yr old.

I am more concerned about the possibility of your becoming the mother to four children at your age. Is this what you would like doing?

Your daughter would probably fit right in with his kids and would love having other kids to play with. This assumes that his kids are nice and that they would accept her. You could test the waters if you date him.

One thing to wonder about is why he has been through two wives already at the age of thirty. That would bother me if I were you.

Here are tips on how to handle mixed families:


Good luck! George

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