i'm just scared that i wont feel a spark and i'll have to hurt him
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
sry.. i just asked a quest last night but today i have a hole new situation!oh im 15, well like i said my ex broke up w/me about 9 mo. ago. and i still love and miss him soo much! but i was on the internet chattin with one of my guy friends and his best friend likes me alot hes also one of my real good friends. well wen i was talkin hes just askin y i wont give his best friend a chance and how i need to get over my ex. the thing is idk if i like his best friend its like i do but i dont. hes to good of a friend and i dont wanna ruin that and it might be kinda acward. im still in love with my ex but should i give this other guy a try?.. im just scared that i wont feel a spark and ill have to hurt him and tell him i still have feelings for my ex. i just dont no what to do. But thanks for the advice yesterday bout how i should tell him hi and smile and stuff..im still going to do that..oh and the other thing is my best friend likes the guy that wants to date me..
Sure, give this new guy a try.
Tell him that you are still hung up on your ex and that you want to try dating other boys to see if that breaks the spell. By warning him, you run a smaller risk of hurting his feelings.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com