Dealing with Cheating
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
What are your tips for getting through cheating. Can we stay together.
Many, many couples have to deal with cheating at some point in their relationship. And many of them do get together and are even stronger afterwards, because it made them realize just how important the relationship was. The Japanese have a saying. A perfect vase just home from the pottery shop is a lovely thing. But the vase you keep for 40 years, that has dents and cracks and faded paint is even more lovely - because all of that wear and tear shows that it has survived all the years with you and is still there to bring you a smile. A relationship is the same way. It goes through ups and downs. The way you get through the low points is far more important than how you sail through the happy times.
In any case, my tips are here -
if you both care for each other and want it to work, it will.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com