I've tried ignoring her, but she will keep talking to me.
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I'm confused! I'm a 21 year old female who has a deep crush on a 29 year old female co-worker. She has a boyfriend that she is with only to keep their 2 kids togehter. We talk about very personal issues and I think that is what brought us closer. When I first told her how I felt for her, she said okay and told me we would see how things go with time. 3 months past by and all that time we had the same friendship, but I noticed she wanted me to talk to her more and she even came to my house to ask me something simple that she would usually ask for over the phone. I noticed she would get jealous when I talked to others. I asked her recently why she is doing this to me, like making it seem like she likes me when she has said she likes men. That should have been a cut off for me, but she recently told me would I be happy if she let me spend a day with her and I could do whatever I want whether touching or not and after that be normal like we always have.
My question, does this seem like she's interested or playing with my feelings? Or you think she's curious? I've asked her, but she won't give me a straight answer. Like she likes the attention of another girl liking her. Any ideas on what I can do? I've tried ignoring her, but she will keep talking to me.
Sounds like she is curious.
Make your decision knowing what you know about her already.
You don't sound sure about what you want. That might be part of the reason she isn't making her motivations clear to you. She isn't sure what you want.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com