my situation, there's three girls, A*, B* and S*...
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hi, this time i am pretty much a big mess...and i have no idea how to solve this, so please help...
ok, my situation, there's three girls, A*, B* and S*...I know, i'm not quite sure myself...
First, A*... she's the same girl as my last e-mail mentioned(in case you forgot, I like her, she likes me, we were about to go out, but I found out that she started going out with someone else (K*)) ok, now they broke up, she's pretty upset, but K* is already going out with someone else...Well, she knows I like her, and she said she thinks she likes me, but she said she only want to be mates for now. I know I should wait, be her best friend,support her, but here's the problem, since she and K* broke up, she pretend she's all happy at school, but I know she's not, I told her to call me if she wants to talk or company, but now, all she does is pretend she's happy during school and all upset after school, what should i do?
Secondly, B*, I know this girl since last year, she said she used to like me last year and I was not sure what to do, so I kind of leave it...This year, we see each other a lot because we do swimming training together, everytime, when she gets a chance, she will always lends on me, and I think I'm starting to have feelings for her...But I think we should be mates for now, know her better before I ask her out...Should I do that? (And it's her birthday next weekend,she asked me to go, should I go?)
Last, S*, I'm kind of like her emotional support, she used to like 2 of my friends and she never had a bf, I realise she can get confused quite easily, last night she told me, she likes me, and i really dunno coz i don't really have much feelings for her, at least not as much as A* and B*...I guess me and her should be mates, is that right?
I know you might think I am a bit...of a player, but really I am not, I really like A* and may be B*, so please help me...(And A* doesn't know B*, but she knows me and B* are mates) Your advice will be much appreciated
You're giving me a real workout... right? :)
My advice is to go ahead with B*. She obviously has feelings for you and you are starting to develop feelings for her. Go to her birthday party.
As for A*, stay friends with her and see how that goes. It doesn't seem too promising right now.
S*... your idea about being mates is the best one. You have enough going on without putting much effort into her.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com