This time I am thinking that he isn't coming back and it is tearing me up inside

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Do I still have a chance? Will we ever be back together?!

Alright so where do I start? I met my ex January 1 2005. (First off that will stink on this new years b/c I will be thinking about him. Do you think he will be thinking the same?) At first I must say, he was using me for my money. It is now almost November and we were still talking so I personally don't believe that he was just using me for my money in the end. I can't believe that someone could use me for that long and claim to love me and deal with BS for 10 months especially when they know they can go back to someone else for money or anything else. I have fallen deeply in love with him but he has now decided he doesn't want to have anything to do with me. Him and I were off and on for awhile but no matter what BS came along we always got through it and became at least friends again (with a little more). We have talked about marriage, kids, and moving to Florida from Ohio to be with his family. He had a motorcycle that was in my name and I was paying for it so technically it was mine. About a week ago I decided I wanted it back because I was feeling disrespected (is that wrong of me)? This was at the point he decided once agian he didn't want to have anything to do with me. A few days later we saw eachother at a bar and he was all up on me and such but then the next day claimed he doesn't remember any of it but he remembered other stuff from the night. He has called me a couple times just to yell at me for something I supposedly did or said. He has decided before that he doesn't want to have anything to do with me but he has always came back. This time I am thinking that he isn't coming back and it is tearing me up inside. He usually started talking to me again after he has gone out and had fun with all of his friends and other girls. He has told some in the past including me that he thinks I am the one and we will end up together especially since we go through so much BS but always end up back together. Do you think he will come back again?? Advice
I can't answer that question.

Some of what you say gives me the idea that he might come back. But some of what you say suggests that he might not.

My overall impression is that he will come back only because he has before.

Good luck! George

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