he lives about 40 min away from me but we havent met up yet
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I NEEED YOUR HELP!!! ok so i started talkin to this guy about 2 months ago and for the entire time we've been talking constantly on the phone for hours..everyday..and if one day went by without a call it jus felt wierd...he knows i like him and hes tol dme he likes me as well and we've talked about dating etc. But...jus like a week ago he all of sudden started talking to me less and less...whether it be on msn or phone calls...it was really strange becuz nothing happened to cause this...he lives about 40 min away from me but we havent met up yet...so i asked last nite wat was goin on and wat the reason for this was becuz i was kinda hurt...i like him a lot an di wanna know if somethins goin on with him n another girl and maybe thats the reason he cant talk to me as much nemore...so wen i asked he completley pulled a guilt trip on me and said 'well its not like you call me nemore then i calll you so you cant complain!' but the reason i dont call him all the time either is becuz i feel like im gettin annoying and im jus callin someone who really doesnt wanna talk to me!! its soooo confusing i dont know wat to do or think becuz he just denies everythin i say...i told him i think hes busy talkin to some other girl or jus doesnt have time for me nemore and he jus laughed and said im crazy n thats not the case at all but that he just talks less now..? and wen i talked to him on the phone 2 days ago he said he'd call me tomorrow (yesterday) but still hasnt called...and usually he'd call rite the next morningg... so i dont know wat to do should i call him more often if he feels as though i dont call enough or should i jus leave it becuz he prob has somethin else goin on? PLSSSSSS HELP thank u
You haven't met up yet.
That's probably the problem. Try to figure out a way to meet and some of the tensions will go away.
Call him only every four days and tell him you miss him and wonder how he is doing. Don't talk about relationships and keep the call to 15 mins.
I wish you the best! George
-- from George
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