However, in these three weeks, i have worked a lot on me... and I believe I have changed
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Me and my ex have been through a lot. Me and him broke up over the summer and got back together before college started again. I have a temper, and I say things I don't mean to when i am mad... things he doesn't like. So he felt things were going back to the way they use to be and he ended it. However, in these three weeks, i have worked a lot on me... and I believe I have changed in a lot of ways. We would talk, and then get into a fight and not talk, and eventually i just poured my heart out to him, and he basically threw it back in my face and called me a liar and that i was seeing other people. I'm not at all. So I did stop talking about the emotional stuff because that was what he wanted. However, when we saw my away messages online that i was having fun he basically said "im glad your having fun, but why are you aving so much fun without me if you love me so much?" and i had no answer for that except to tell him that i had stopped being overly emotional and we shouldnt talk about that, so he blocked me... and its been like 5 days now... but everyday he unblocks me to simply check my away messages like 10 times... i dont understand, and im not too sure what to do in this situation.. i love him and i want to be with him... please help.
You have to figure out a way to contact him.
For example, if you could phone him say "I miss you and am wondering how you are doing?" Don't discussion your relationship unless he demands to.
Call him once a week and always keep the conversation short.. 15 mins.
The way you described him, I think he will come back to you soon.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com