He is a very stubborn and impulsive man
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hello- my boyfriend and I were together for 14 months- in that time we had a beautiful daughter together! We started fighting when I was about 5 months pregnant and he had lost his job! Things were really stressful and my horomones were out of control! When the baby came things were good for a bit and then it was one stressor after another- our child was sick and in the hospital- I wasn't working he had to get a second job- I felt isolated- he complained I never paid attention to him anymore- and then we got into a fight and he kicked me and the baby out! THis was about a motnh ago and he refuses to talk to me I stopped trying to contact him about a week ago! We have a court date for child support Nov. 15! I know he loves me and I know I love him and we both made stupid mistakes and said some stupid things- he told me the day we broke up he was never taking me back and he's not going back on his word! He is a very stubborn and impulsive man- what should I think - what should I do?
Maybe when he starts paying child support he will sing a different tune.
Maybe when he starts missing his daughter he will change his mind.
Make sure he knows you still want him back in your life so he doesn't have that excuse for ignoring you.
Bring your daughter over to his family's house so they begin to bond with her and maybe put some pressure on him to do things right.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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