when we hang out we always end up having silent moments or coming up with stupid subjects

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Im 14yrs
There is this guy (My friends and i call him Shorty) i've had a crush on secretly since the second term his 2 grades higher than me but 3 yrs older).2 weeks ago(friday) i got a sms from him saying he would like to get to know me. It was hard to believe that he's interested in me 2. He said that he thought that i was really pretty, he got my no. from one of his friends that know me.
That friday night he phoned me and we spoke about eachother. During the past 2 weeks we've gotten to know eachother and hang out. I get a bit nervous around him but i still get to act myself. it doesn't seem that he does when he's with me, Why? when we hang out we always end up having silent moments or coming up with stupid subjects to talk about.i get embarressed so easily around him, and seem not to hear what he says to me most of the time (he mumbles).We both know that we both like eachother and so does 12-14 of his friends and a few of mine.We haven't spoken much this last week.I got one phone call from him during the 7 days we haven't spoken!! I saw him once this week at school and he didn't even come talk to me then, the rest of the week he hasn't been at school.That one call i got was on Tuesday, i asked him then why he wasn't at school, and he said he's been busy.I spoke to one of his friends and he said that ,Shoty ,(my crush) likes me alot.I believed him then but now i don't know, what if he has changed his mind bout me,how can he be so busy and not be able to give atleast 2-3 calls in 7 days!He really seems like a good, BAD BOY to me.I only heard from my ex that he's not a good guy.
What do i do or not do?

P.s. One of my closest friends i've known 4 almost 5 years (she's 17) said that she can't see us having a serious relationship. Shorty did mention b4 that he would like to the lucky guy to go out with me.
Thanks- A*

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He probably feels uncomfortable with the silences you two have.

There are an infinite number of things to talk about... you just need to get over your shyness. Here are some tips about subjects to talk about:


Hope this helps! George

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