I really want her there. I care a lot about her and love spending time with her

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I have this friend who I just old I had feelings for. My birthday is coming up. I was going to invite her to go to dinner with a couple of my closest friends. She has a boyfriend though. The thing is she breaks plans a lot with me. How can I go about his to make sure she comes? I really want her there. I care a lot about her and love spending time with her. I would mean a lot to me if she could come. Also what sort of things could we do after dinner to become closer. Anything that could give us some alone time that is also fun where we could become closer.

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This is a tough one.

How can you make sure she doesn't break the date? I suppose you could tell her it's your birthday and you would really feel bad if she changed her mind.

What to do after dinner? First you have to get rid of your two close friends so you would be alone with the girl. If the restaurant is in a mall, you could walk around. Do you have a car? How about just driving around and talk. Nothing else comes to mind. Oh, how about a movie?

Good luck! George

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