i want to be with my bf, but i'm too head over heels for the other one

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alright i have just a little more than a bit to type, here, okay i have two problems, so it's a two part question. okay one i am 16 years old, and i have a bf i've been with for almost 3years, i know that's a long time espically for someone so young. Although i do love my bf the first year of two of a realationship sucked, he treated me very bad, mean ingoring me ECt... anyway, in the time of him being such a jerk, i fell for a friends, younger brother.i really like him and we have alot in common with him, we go to the same school and everything. now everybody likes him already. now the problem is i want to be with my bf, but i'm too head over heels for the other one, to ingorne my feelings. also i'm not even sure the other guy likes me like that, i just get these vibes so do my friends, they think he likes me plz....help me sry for it being this long

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You are in a tough spot.

It's time to make up your mind--to say yes to one and leave the other behind. You may end up with no boyfriend by doing this, but it is better than having two. With two interests, you are not being honest with your boyfriend. You are also making it very difficult to form a bond with the new guy.

So, that's my advice: make up your mind.

Good luck! George

-- from George
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