I asked her to punch me in the face
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I don't know what category this would go in. This is really weird, but here it goes. The girl I like, who keeps tickling me, is tickling other guys. I just thought I would mention that. Anyways, I wanted to get to know her better, so I asked her to do me an extreme favor. I asked her to punch me in the face. So she did. And I liked it. Through the punch, I began to understand her better. I started to ask her questions like how she felt when she did it, if she hit me as hard as she could, etc. After that incident, she has been talking to me more often than ever before. Instead of me starting up a conversation, she will. It's like the punch made something 'click' in her mind. She said she felt good hitting me. So my question is 'what happened here?'(This is kinda stupid, isn't it?). Thanks in advance.
P.S. I am not depressed, I do not want to commit suicide, or anything like that. I just wanted to feel her punch me. I don't need a counseler or anything. Besides, it didn't hurt that much.
You've discovered a unique way to get a girl's attention.
Chalk the experience up to a moment of spontaneity where you just were living life the way it should be. A little weird but hey...
My advice is to be a little bit more conventional for a while so she doesn't get the idea that you are from a different planet :) Get a good communication going with her so you get closer. Share feelings and thoughts both good and bad.
Things will probably turn out fine for you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com