this guy just keeps coming into my mind and he is who I want to be with, but we are both taken

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I have been talking to this guy for a while now and he has a girlfriend so I have been keeping things at a friendship level. The thing is that he wants it to be something more but I told him that I can't do it because I am currently in a relationship and he is in one as well. The problem is that I can't stop thinking about him no matter how hard I try not to think about him he just keeps popping up in my mind. I realize that I have feelings for him and he asked me the other night night how I feel about him and I told him that I liked him but that was it and he wanted to hear more but I couldn't tell him how much I cared about him. I don't know what to do at this point because I have a boyfriend and this guy just keeps coming into my mind and he is who I realy want to be with, but we are both taken. What should I do? Advice
Honesty is the best policy.

Tell your boyfriend about your quandary. Work it out with him what you two are going to do. Then, if your feelings are still the same, tell the other guy how you feel about him.

You may end up with no bf, but that's the chance you take.

Good luck! George

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