He tells me he knows hes messing things up and knows he wont find anyone better
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
To make a long story short. 4 months ago I told my ex i needed a break but not to see other people however it was to see other people. I wanted to get with this other guy. We ended up making out bla bla bla but I stopped it as soon as I realized that I didn't want to be kissing this guy but I wanted to be with my boyfriend. We have been together for almost 4 years. My father left during this time. I became insecure not only about myself but about our relationship. I was controlling a bit, and insecure, I would nit pick at stupid things. He never pointed this out to me so I never thought it was an issue. Thought he had tough skin. Eventually Id say well 4 months later which is now. He said he wanted space and time to think about things. I said ok but really for the past month never gave him time I would call and text him. 3 days ago I stopped everything. He continuously says make me miss you i want to really really miss you so that I will see whether or no I want this. It will help he hopes is what he said. I said 3-4 days ago hey you have 2 weeks Im gone completely no contact. I think thats enough time to make someone miss you after youve been together for that long. I told him to come to my house October 30th if he wants to try to fix anything. When I saw him last week I left his house said bye he said yeah bye for now. Now he has a best gal pal that hes had since we met. He tells me all the time that there is nothing there and he doesn't want to be with her. I saw some pictures online of her, well he had commented on them. for instance a picture of her sittig next to a big coke bottle. He writes, " why do poeple want a coke Id rather have whats next to it." Meaning her. Harmless flirting? Will he be back? He doesn't want to talk but says he hopes that eventually he will see that he loves me. He tells me he knows hes messing things up and knows he wont find anyone better and to top it all off says sorry i think about this but i thought about how awesome our makeup sex would be. Please help.
Things are up and down with you two.
Right now I'd say the odds are better than even that you two will be back together. Guess you will know pretty soon.
I wish you the best of luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com