Should I just keep away from them both
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hello, Im 18 years old and dating someone 200 miles apart from me. Just two days ago, including last night, I found myself sleeping with another girl which also happenens to be a co-worker. I know in my heart that I love my girlfriend, but since we live so far apart it put me in jeprody. I was taken home by another employee, and it lead to sex. I myself let it get to that point, and I honestly cant say that I didn't enjoy it. I just need to know if what I did was completely wrong, because I actually felt affection towards the second girl before engaging in sexual activity. I was looking for something new, and I found it. The girl whom I'm having the 2-day affair with fits the type of girl (psychically) that I've only dreamt about. I told my girlfriend that i did not kiss or have sex with this girl because she wouldn't ever be able to handle it. my girlfriend has problems and she cant quite handle the growing up part of life, and im not sure im ready to settle down just yet. should i keep the distance between us, and see if i have a chance to make things work with the other girl, or just keep away from them both (which is hard with the girl at work), and just see how I feel down the line? thanks in advance!
I can't advise you to cheat on your girlfriend.
So, your choices are break up with your gf or stay away from this new girl.
My advice is to stay away from this new girl and see what happens down the road.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com