She lives about 40 min away and is busy a lot of the time
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I have no idea if this girl likes me. We are friends and in fact I just told her that I have feelings for her. She never gave me a straight repsonse about how she feels about me.(I think because she is involved with someone right now.) She said she was flattered and it was better that I told her.(WHAT DEOS THIS MEAN!!!) She also said that she and her boyfriend are getting serious. Can you please tell me what she meant by this and if you think she likes me. Did she mean that if she and her boyfriend don't work out then she wants to be with me. I don't want to ask her myself becasue I don't want to make her uncomfortbale.I have a lot of trouble trying to figure her out. I know she likes me as a friend but I need to know if there is a possibility of us taking our relationship to the next level. (when and if she and her bf breakup of course) Because I don't want to waste my energy on hoping for something that will never happen. Though we are friends we don't talk as much as I would like. She lives about 40 min away and is busy a lot of the time. Also I am a freshman in college and she is a senior in high school. How can I advance our relationship and become closer to her so if she breaks up with her boyfriend we can transition our frienship into dating. Please Help. I need to know is she likes and what I should do next.
The way is to become closer friends with her.
Try calling her on the phone and chat. Or use some other method of communication if you can.
I can't answer the questions you asked because I don't know her well enough and wasn't present (obviously) to read her body language. She isn't ready to come out and tell you anything specific because she has a bf.
But, I feel good about your chances if you can manage to remain friends and improve your friendship. Do whatever it takes to do that.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com