With him it's like one minute he loves me and the next he doesn't
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My boyfriend and i broke up but sometimes we still act like we're together. We do almost everything that we did when we were together. I love him so much. He means the world to me. I would do anything for him. I always put him first. Thats how much i care. Everyone knows how much i love him. Ive never been in relationship like the one with him and its so different from all the other ones i have been in. We broke up and he blames everything on me. He makes it seem like evertything is my fault. He broke up wit me and he called me all upset like i had did something to him when he broke up with me. I stayed on the phone with him and tried to make him feel better though. With him its like one minute he loves me and the next he doesnt. Its very obvious that he doesnt want me with anyone else. He would be very jealous. He claims he loves me. But i cant seem to understand things. If he loves me like he says he do then why arent we together. His friends and cousins aske him that question and he can never answer it. I ask him and he gets mad. I dont know what to do. Sometimes its like hes playing games with me. People tell me to play them back but i cant do him like dat. I care to much about him. Please give me advice about the situation.
Seems he doesn't understand his emotions.
Or maybe he just can't control them. When he has bad moments tell him you "think you understand." Be gentle with him and encourage him to share his feelings with you.
Try becoming a best friend so that when he sorts out his feelings he will still be close to you. Friendship is a good thing, no matter how things turn out.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com