im too scared to tell my mom and dad and i don't know when to tell them
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
ok im a 13 year old kid that likes a 14 year old girl.we have all ready told each outher that we like each outcher for a year now and we are now boyfriend and girlfrind now i really like her alot she is my first girlfriend. she means alot to me we would like to go out but my mom and dad dont know about this yet i dont know what to say since this is my first girlfriend and im to scared to tell my mom and dad and i dont know when to tell them and how and her sister has told her mom and dad that she likes me and her mom wants to see me which i think is SCARY. and also the girl i like lives acrose the street she allways is playing games with her sister outside and i would like to come over and play to.and the last thing is that she is in every class that im in and we never talk i want to talk to her but i dont know what to talk about to her at lunch,class,or on the bus can you please help me
You are suffering the troubles that all kids have when they start dating.
Don't tell your parents until you feel you have to. They won't care as long as your relationship is not too deep.
When she and her sister are playing, go across the street and ask if you can play too and that you want to meet her mother. Don't worry about how you act because she will know you are nervous. Naturally, be courteous.
What to talk about is always a problem caused by nerves... because there are thousands of things to talk about. Every thought that comes into your mind is a subject for conversation and the same is true for her. Here is a website that gives you tips about what to talk about:
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com