I made her laugh one by asking my spanish teacher whether aloha was japaneseVisitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I there is this girl I am starting to like she is a nice good looking girl ( a rareity in my school its either one or ther other :L) well I made her laugh one by asking my spanish teacher weather aloha was japanese. The girl replied laughing "no its hawaian" and that was probably the only time I talked to her. I am friends with most of her friends. I did complement her on her bookbag once but she didnt say anything that got me worried because I thought the same ( go away thing) was happening. I have one main dillema..... Im the class geek/moron/psyco/ect. you get the picture (and black and I for some unknown reason are atracted to white girls more than black girls) which has caused me a 100% turn down rate from girls I ask out. which I what worries me ALOT. (this has given me a immense fear of being rejected, and causes me to show off and start acting weird(hence the tittle class******ect.)
Many girls have told me I very handsome except for one. But when Ever I flirt with girls wich is a rarity in my case. I end up making a complete moron out of my self. she doesnt know about that that much(hopefully) but Some girls when i talk to them give me the."WHY IS THIS IDIOT TALKING TO ME?!" look. I fear that look and makes me extreamely nervous to talk to the girl. and I usualy wind up planning a week in advance to say hi to her and not following through. It makes me feel so upset and unhappy. (not all the time!) but what do you suggest I do?
First off, reduce your nervousness.
To do this, stop talking to girls for a few weeks. Just smile and say hi plus their name. This will give you a chance to relax and look at yourself from the outside. It will give them a chance to see you in a different light.
Then start talking to the girls as friends and get to know something about them... like what music they like, what their family is like. Normal things that can be called chit-chat.
Keep doing this and don't go back to your old style. You will have much better luck with girls that way.
Good luck! George
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