i have known this guy for about 3 years (im 16 now) we have been good friends all 3 years
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i have known this guy for about 3 years (im 16now) we have been good friends all 3 years i have liked him on and off and he has known but yet we have stayed friends he has had girlfriends on and off all the years and has a girlfriend now. I truely feel that i am going to marry this guy. within the last few weeks i feel like its ok that he has a girlfriend and im not jealous at all im happy for him because i feel like oh ill be with him in the end and that its something he just has to do at this time in his life so it doesnt matter. and i am not crushin like how girls talk about the guy ALL the time and write his name out with mine and are obsessed its just a oh i like him and he is the guy for me.(I feel like im crazy because im so young i mean honestly who usually thinks like this) i guess could i really end up with him for the rest of my life? IS that a sign?please help.
Anything is possible, but don't put a lot of faith in the thought that you and he will be together forever. It rarely happens that way.
But, you never know. So, keep up your good relationship with him and be there for him as a friend and a friendly ear to share his feelings with.
You should take advantage of the next time he has no girlfriend to try to let him know how you feel. You don't want to spend too much of your life thinking about just one guy.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com