I feel I know more about reading body language than I know what to do with
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I have read so many advise pages. I feel I know more about reading body language than I know what to do with. However I am still confused. another opinion would be helpful. There is a man at work I gave my # to. he works in the same building not the same company. anyway. he showed positive body language. Always says hi or acknowledges me when I'm around. But we are so busy we don't get to talk. he never called me. after a few weeks I decided to give him a short note explaining I was interested in a casual relationship. Still some positive body language & greetings but no call.I'm not sure if he being polite, just busy, or is shy. Since I made the first move I have to wonder if I scared him off.I don't want to bring it up again in case he isn't interested. that could make things very awkward. any suggestions? I am currently veiwing this as a no go situation.
You are probably right... it is a no go situation.
Sometimes people give off positive body language as part of their nature. Perhaps that is what happened here.
My advice is to go with your instinct and stop trying with him.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com