I dont want her back now, shes not her, im not me and we both need help

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Sorry george i am a jackass. I saw my ex for the first time today, and she looks like shes lost alot of weight and shes seems to be not happy, I got crazy and wanted to really end my life cuz she said no chance in hell. I finally snapped out of it thinkin that my rents needed me, she needed me(i think) and most of all i needed me. I dont want her back now, shes not her, im not me and we both need help. We both have alot of issues to resolve with ourselves. I did volunteer to be her math tudor, something i dunno if i will regret. I figure being her friend might be nice but not now. I know i have to let go and i will. I am just so confused and depressed right now and i will be stronger off of this. sounds like she was goin thru the same things as me, just could hide it well. So I just wonder if god still has something up his sleeve for her and i and i know if i love her i will move on.

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Sorry to hear this has happened to you.

Despite your sorrow, you sound like you have things fairly well under control. As you said, if you love her you will let her go.

My advice now is to seek professional counseling to try to get some help with your grief. It would be well worth it.

Good luck! George

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