She says she does not know what she wants out of life. Nor do I...
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My ex-girlfriend broke it off with me. Her frinds were not single when we first started dating but recently they both became single. My ex starting going out more with them to bars clubs etc. I had to get use to this at first. i would worry about what her friends were saying about me and so on...Well we were together for a year and six months. I really did love her. I knew when things started to seem different because she would not call me ass much and when I said i loved her she would ask me why? all the time...
Then she went out this wedsday and I got a picture of her from her friend with another guy dancing. All over each other. needless to say we broke up. i still love her we are both still in college shes 21 and i am 22. Talked to her today and she claimss the guy at the bar was just drunk and they were not dancing together! i do not know what to think anymore. She wants to take a break to think things over. She says she does not know what she wants our of life. Nor do I but why would she want a break from me. I never fought with her or hit her. Maybe I cared to much didn't give her enough space. I am supposed to see her st the end of Oct. to hang out. I want to move on but a part of me can't. Should I see her she still wants to call me from time to time. I don't know what to do?
Seems like 21 is the magic year for a woman to want space.
We get many letters like yours when the woman is 21.
Give her her space, of course. Have your get together at the end of Oct.
and hope for the best. Don't push too much on your relationship.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com